I had a nightmare: on the Duggars, Christianity, and abuse


This is another example of how the abuse cycle works. All the research in psychology shows that telling your story is an important part of healing. Doesn’t have to be a declaration, but a telling of some kind. Never let anyone tell you that it is wrong to report what has and/ or is happening to you!

Karrie higgins

“I had a nightmare,” my father-in-law says, his voice hoarse and weak after a stem cell transplant for lymphoma. “That Rod climbed through the window of my hospital room and attacked me.”

He and my husband are chatting on Skype, something they never used to do until his father got sick. In any other context, it might look like redemption: a son and father healing a rift. But already, I am suppressing an urge to yank the laptop from my husband’s hands.

Rod was a felon my husband’s parents invited into their home for a faith-based Restorative Justice program. A felon who manipulated my husband into playing the “wee wee game” with him in the bathtub, amongst other things. The “wee wee game” is exactly what it sounds like: genital fondling.

My husband combs his fingers through this curls, a tic he acquired ever since he landed in the hospital…

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Posted on June 12, 2015, in Ramblings and Rants and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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